You really are not in that bad of a situation if you happen to
still reside with your ex girlfriend after the break up. I know, at
first it probably doesn't seem that way. You probably are already
fearing what you are going to have to deal with, like the idea that she
might be going out on a date while you are still at the apartment and
then you are going to have to wonder what she is actually doing.
However, there is a bright side to this.
Personally,
I have actually been in this situation before. When I was 20, me and my
then girlfriend got an apartment with one another and about 10 months
later, we broke up. Like, the real kind of break up where I was sleeping
on the couch. However, it didn't turn out to be that bad at all. It was
kind of weird at first, but then I realized something - that I still
had the chance to win her back pretty easily and I did.
What did I do?
First
off, I gave her as much space as I could, being that we were in a 1
bedroom apartment. I took to the couch at night and kind of did my own
thing when I would get off from work. Even though a part of me expected
that she was going to end up dating someone, she didn't. So, when I
would come home from hanging out, she would be right there and she would
actually ask me what I did, if I had fun, that kind of thing.
After
a week, I started to flirt with her again. Not so much so that it was
obvious that I was trying to patch things up, but enough so that the
sparks were still there between me and her. She flirted back a little
and that went on for about another week. One night, I decided that I was
going to try to take things to the next level.
I was going to make that night the night that we got back together.
I
came home, in a really good mood and she seemed like she was happy to
see me. She asked about what I had done, I was a little bit vague. That
seemed to make her a little more interested in talking to me and the
talking led to flirting and using a few seduction tricks that I knew
quite well, we ended up back in bed.
The next night, I let it be
up to her where I was going to sleep. I actually started to go to the
couch, and she looked at me and said, "Nope, you are sleeping in here
tonight" and she pointed to the bedroom. The point of this little story
is, if you know what to do, still living with your ex girlfriend can be a
very good thing if you want to win her back. It can make it pretty easy
for you, so don't think that you don't have a chance, because you very
well might have one.
